Insisting things go the way you want them to go means you make yourself smaller. This act diminishes your effectiveness as a:
Leader
Teacher
Parent
Friend
Manager
Coach
Neighbor
Politician
Consultant
Sibling
Community Member
School Board Member
Director
Too many organizations are confined by self: roles become more important than team or the collective purpose.
When you co-discover a greater reality with others you move beyond self-imposed limitations and expand the frame of reality. How will you create and deliver something bigger than you today? (The answer likely starts with a question.)