There are a lot of people dreaming right now. January marks the point for setting a course in the New Year. What is it you want to achieve? What do you want to do? Become?
Here’s some important advice: Don’t follow your dreams.
Last year a big, hairy elephant stood in the way of millions of dreams. And he’s ready to trample your dreams for 2009 if you’re not careful. There is a better way.
Don’t follow your dreams – because following anything doesn’t guarantee you’ll get there. How many people set lofty aspirations – only to become sidetracked or disillusioned? “It wasn’t what I really wanted to do anyway,” they rationalized. Or, “That dream was ridiculous. Did you hear what would have been expected of me?”
So they go back to living the life they lived before. And there’s nothing wrong with that… unless you want to improve the life you lived before.
If you’re serious about achieving anything in 2009 don’t follow your dreams – drive your dreams. Bring a level of determination and control and commitment and passion and excitement that leaves little doubt change is what you’re about.
Drive. Don’t follow.
Following dreams relegates people to never-ending analysis and the search for the perfect plan or method to achieving dreams. And because they follow dreams, they’re susceptible to following the next good idea that comes along. And the next. And the next… which gets them nowhere.
This year, ensure success by:
- Setting the vision/dream;
- Choosing the strategy;
- Then driving the strategy – consistently.
There is no secret strategy, no hidden code that creates success for some – while others languish in dream purgatory. The difference lies in the execution, in choosing to follow a dream – or drive it.
I really like this one. I read when I can but, unfortunately, I have allowed “life” to interfere. I’ve had a goal to lose weight for years. Never accomplished it. But this year I changed the goal to “I’m going to play sports and do as many activities with my kids as I can this year”. So, I’ve played tennis with one, hiking with another, Wii Guitar hero with the another. It’s been a blast. I’m closer to my children than ever. I’ve lost 8 pounds in 2 months (and I’m not even trying)! Set the goals for what you really want, attack it with passion, and the “side” benefits will overwhelm you.